Forgiveness and reconciliation are often treated as though they are the same thing. But they serve different purposes, and confusing the two can leave people caught between guilt, fear, and uncertainty about what healing should look like.

Being hurt by a church community is a particular kind of pain, because the people involved are often the ones a person turned to for comfort, guidance, and belonging.

There are some common questions I am asked when consulting with new clients such as: What distinguishes Christian counseling from other types of counseling?  How do I know if Christian counseling is for me or my family?  What is the unique approach of a Christian Counselor?

Let’s explore what Christian counseling is, by first looking at what counseling, in general, is designed to be according to the American Counseling Association…